The lives of families struggling with autism spectrum challenges are often filled with constant responsibilities, caregiving, and mental fatigue. In such a situation, a program like “Take a Break” is a boon for families who are constantly attending to their children’s needs. This program not only provides a moment of respite for caring parents, but also provides an opportunity to regain balance in their relationships and lives. Many parents shared their experiences, describing how this short break brought them great relief.
“We Found Each Other Again” – Kathy and Steve, Lane County
Kathy and Steve’s experience is a living example of how a little respite can rejuvenate a relationship. She explains, “This break gave us a chance to reconnect. We were able to talk openly, without any barriers, which hadn’t been possible for a long time. I want to express how important this time was for our relationship and our peace of mind. Life with children with autism is very tiring, and breaks like this help us regain our energy.”
Her words reflect the feelings of many parents who are consumed by their children’s needs 24/7 and can’t find even a moment for themselves.
“A little relief after 20 years of exhaustion” – Tammy, Yamhill County
Tammy explained that she and her husband have faced many difficult times over the past 20 years. He said, “We’ve both been through a lot for the past 20 years, but we’ve been moving forward together. This little respite was a gift. Initiatives like ‘Take a Break’ are truly invaluable. Thank you so much.”
His words speak to the many couples who become so engrossed in caring for their children that they forget to appreciate the simple joys of life.
“I’m alone, but I don’t feel so alone anymore” – Jeremy, Deschutes County
Jeremy’s story reflects the feelings of single parents raising a child with autism. He emotionally said, “I’m a single parent, and it’s incredibly difficult to do it all alone. This break was like a reward for me. I’m so grateful to know that people understand our circumstances and care about us. Thank you from the bottom of my heart! I hope this good karma returns to all of you.”
Their words illustrate how much a little compassion and empathy can help someone.
“Just two hours of freedom, but memorable” – Nancy, Washington County
For Nancy and her husband, this short break brought an afternoon filled with laughter and relaxation after a long time.
She smiled and said, “We’re grateful for giving us a wonderful afternoon. I ate the most delicious hamburger I’ve ever eaten, and then we went to a comedy movie. It’s been ages since we’ve had a chance to go out somewhere just the two of us. We really needed this break.”
This experience shows that happiness isn’t always found in big things, but in small moments.
“For us, it wasn’t just a dinner, it was a new hope” – Dale, Clackamas County
Sharing his experience, Dale said,
“Thank you so much to ASO for the ‘Take a Break’ program. My wife and I enjoyed a wonderful dinner, which would have been nearly impossible for us under normal circumstances, as our two autistic children can’t handle the loud noise and crowds of restaurants. It was a wonderful gift. Raising children with special needs comes with many additional expenses, so this support is deeply appreciated.”
His words reflect the need for programs in society that connect these families to the joys of normal life.
“Someone Understood Our Feelings” – Damon and Susan, Multnomah County
Damon and Susan, who care for two autistic children, said,
“Caring for two autistic children has been a huge challenge for us. But it’s comforting to know that there are organizations that understand not only the children’s feelings but also their caregivers’ feelings and needs. Our experience with ‘Take a Break on ASO!’ has been wonderful. We cannot express our gratitude enough.”
Their experience makes it clear that emotional support is just as essential as physical assistance.
Concluding: A New Direction for Compassion and Understanding
All of these stories have a common thread—compassion, understanding, and shared humanity.
The “Take a Break” program reminds us that when society unites and shows sensitivity, a ray of hope can dawn on even the most weary hearts. For families of children with autism, this initiative isn’t just a few hours of respite, but rather an inspiration to smile, connect, and move forward in life again.
It proves that sometimes a short break can be the greatest gift.
